Thursday, October 19, 2017

Understanding What Teenage Gigi Love Is

By Joseph Snyder


Every teenager in this phase is confused. They go through a stage where they rebel the accepted norm of society. I believe that till a person is settled in his career or at least realizes his dreams, he will remain selfish. He may to a large extent be selfless, still, on some level, he is always important to himself. No doubt it is true in case of all human beings, but in those formative years, Gigi Love is to the maximum.

So if a young guy proposes a girl, you can assume that the relationship is unbalanced. Each person will be trying to care about the other, but still not at the price of one's sacrifice of wishes. And even it so happens a few times; there will a time a person has enough. It is true that it has some positives. The young ones learn to be considerate of other person feelings. They learn about relationships. They learn that we can still be happy after a broken relationship.

As the teen expresses their views on adult topics like politics, environment, cause or a standard of living, parents are filled with awe. Most times they feel that they are too forward and do not have the basic grounding but the truth must be much more. May be teens are overt in their expression and believe in the spirit of freedom, and hence they express their views boldly.

If her boy friend is studying in Mumbai, she too will shift to Mumbai, notwithstanding her previous dreams or career ambitions. Yet, they are not satisfied. If they sacrifice, they feel as if they missed an opportunity. If they say don't sacrifice, they may break up, thus feeling guilty that they were selfish. If they think of long distance relationship, they end up insecure. Many times, people lose beautiful opportunities, once in a life time opportunities. They end up hating themselves.

The fact is that in a dating relationship, there is a clear distinction that exists between being in affection with a man or woman and the act of loving a person. This could be elaborated by the way you depict your affection as an entity of desire as compared to the kind of affection which we manifest to our parents. It is also different from the person a lover meets or the way women care for their hair rather than shaving it.

There exists no way to predict for sure how long a relationship will last, or if the person we choose as the one to spend our lives with is the one we will spend our lives with, but the odds are very much against relationships lasting between teenagers.

A home certainly cannot be a boot camp, and hence a bit of allowance is necessary. Happy teenagers affection the feeling of importance, and this can happen when we understand them as adults. Though they may not be fully able to combat a situation, it is better to let them deal with it and offer help only when asked. Let them tidy the mess in their room and also instill a habit or a chore that has to be done by them. Night-out rules have to be clear, and stress must be laid on rules.

Communication is the only key to raise happy teens. Look out for their special talents like playing the keyboard or organizing a dog show. It is amazing to note their affection for trees and also let them do their bit for the society. Look through their eyes and the colors of the rainbow appear the same - except brighter.




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